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thorin-and-twerkteam:

emotional abuse is when someone does something to hurt you, and when you express your feelings, that you’re upset, they turn it around to be something you did to hurt them and they force you to apologize for it, and your feelings, like always, are rendered invalid and silenced, forever damaging the ability to trust others with your feelings because they always are used against you.

this is important because so many people don’t know this

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It’s dark because you are trying too hard. 
Lightly child, lightly. Learn to do everything lightly. 
Yes, feel lightly even though you’re feeling deeply. 
Just lightly let things happen and lightly cope with them. 

I was so preposterously serious in those days, such a humorless little prig. 
Lightly, lightly – it’s the best advice ever given me. 
When it comes to dying even. Nothing ponderous, or portentous, or emphatic. 
No rhetoric, no tremolos, 
no self conscious persona putting on its celebrated imitation of Christ or Little Nell. 
And of course, no theology, no metaphysics. 
Just the fact of dying and the fact of the clear light. 

So throw away your baggage and go forward. 
There are quicksands all about you, sucking at your feet, 
trying to suck you down into fear and self-pity and despair. 
That’s why you must walk so lightly. 
Lightly my darling, 
on tiptoes and no luggage, 
not even a sponge bag, 
completely unencumbered.

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— Aldous Huxley
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indypendent-thinking:

Photograph by Michael Cole, 1960s (via townandcountrymag.com )
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2006: Ralph Lauren becomes the Official Outfitter of Wimbledon

He is the first designer in the tournament’s 129-year history to be chosen to create uniforms for all on-court officials
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Bath and Tennis Club, Palm Beach. 
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Play time. 
Paul Newman in Westport, CT playing tennis, 1960. Courtesy of Vista Photos/Hulton Archive/Getty Images.
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"'Slut' is attacking women for their right to say yes. 'Friend Zone' is attacking women for their right to say no."
And “bitch” is attacking women for their right to call you on it.
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